Relationships Lyrics – HAIM

“Relationships” is a new english song by HAIM, released on HAIM’s official YouTube channel. Written by Danielle Haim, Este Haim, Alana Haim, Tobias Jesso Jr., Ariel Rechtshaid, Rostam, and Buddy Ross, and produced by Rostam, Danielle Haim, and Buddy Ross, the song delivers an emotionally charged reflection on love, frustration, and the inevitable complications of modern relationships. Released on March 12, 2025, the track combines HAIM’s signature blend of alternative rock and pop with introspective storytelling, resonating with anyone who has experienced the highs and lows of romantic entanglements.

At its core, “Relationships” is a candid and sometimes exasperated meditation on love’s contradictions. The lyrics navigate the push and pull of romance, questioning why people keep finding themselves caught in cycles of emotional turmoil. HAIM explores themes of miscommunication, self-doubt, and the lingering influence of past relationships, even drawing parallels to generational patterns inherited from their parents. While the song expresses frustration with love’s complexities, it also acknowledges the inescapable nature of relationships—despite their flaws, they remain an essential part of life. The track’s conversational tone and anthemic chorus make it a raw yet relatable confession of love’s unpredictable nature.

Relationships Details

Song	Relationships
Artists	HAIM
Written By	Danielle Haim, Este Haim, Alana Haim, Tobias Jesso Jr., Ariel Rechtshaid, Rostam & Buddy Ross
Produced By	Rostam, Danielle Haim & Buddy Ross
Label	HAIM
Language	English
Released Date	Mar 12, 2025

Relationships Lyrics

[Spoken Intro]
Wasting time, driving through the Eastside
Doing my thing ’cause I can’t decide if we’re through
Well, are we?
And if we are, what we gonna do?

[Verse 1]
Relationships, oh
What’s all this talk about relationships?
It feels like everyone’s caught up in it
Oh, just you wait, you must be new to this
(Goes like, goes like, goes like)

[Pre-Chorus]
You got a look on your face
Like you’re caught in a lie, lie, lie (Goes, goes like, goes like)
I got you all to myself
But I keep asking “Why, why, why?” in this relationship

[Chorus]
Baby, how can I explain
When an innocent mistake
Turns into seventeen days? Fuckin’ relationships
Don’t they end up all the same
When there’s no one left to blame?
I think I’m in love, but I can’t stand fuckin’ relationships
(Goes, goes like, goes like)

[Verse 2]
Why do I have a guilty conscience?
I’ve always been averse to conflict
But you really fucked with my confidence
(Goes like, goes like, goes like)

[Pre-Chorus]
You gotta tell me the truth
If you don’t want to try-y-y (Goes, goes like, goes like)
I hear a voice in my head
And it keeps asking, “Why am I in this relationship?”

[Chorus]
Baby, how can I explain
When an innocent mistake
Turns into seventeen days? Fuckin’ relationships
Don’t they end up all the same
When there’s no one left to blame?
I think I’m in love, but I can’t stand fuckin’ relationships
(Goes, goes like, goes like)

[Bridge]
Relationships
How did we get ourselves into this?
Relationships
Oh, this can’t just be the way it is
Relationships
Or is it just the shit our parents did
And had to live with it
In their relationship?
Relationships (‘Ships, ‘ships, ‘ships)
Relationships
Fuckin’ relationships

[Chorus]
Baby, how can I explain
When an innocent mistake
Turns into seventeen days? Fuckin’ relationships
Don’t they end up all the same
When there’s no one left to blame?
I think I’m in love, but I can’t stand communicating it
Let me tell you how it ends
When we can’t even pretend
Feels like we’re not even friends in this relationship
But I would do it all again
If you put down your defenses
I think I’m in love, so why am I trying to escape from it?
Maybe that’s just how it goes
When you’re not fully grown
But, baby, when you know, you know, fuckin’ relationships
So don’t let it bring you down
‘Cause it all comes back around
I think I’m in love, but I can’t stand fuckin’ relationships

Relationships Meaning

[Spoken Intro]
The song opens with an introspective monologue, setting the stage for the emotional conflict that unfolds. Driving aimlessly through the city, the speaker wrestles with uncertainty—are they still in this relationship, or is it already over? The rhetorical questions highlight the confusion and indecision that often accompany breakups, emphasizing how unresolved emotions linger even when a relationship is seemingly falling apart.

[Verse 1]
HAIM introduces a skeptical perspective on relationships, portraying them as something people get caught up in rather than consciously choose. The line “Oh, just you wait, you must be new to this” suggests a sense of disillusionment, as if love is an inevitable cycle of disappointment. The repetition of “goes like, goes like, goes like” reinforces the idea that these patterns are predictable, making love feel more like an obligation than a genuine connection.

[Pre-Chorus]
The pre-chorus captures the tension within the relationship, with one person seemingly hiding something (“You got a look on your face like you’re caught in a lie”). Meanwhile, the speaker grapples with uncertainty, wondering why they continue to stay despite their doubts. The contrast between wanting emotional closeness and questioning the relationship’s purpose underscores the inner turmoil that often accompanies love.

[Chorus]
In the chorus, HAIM expresses frustration with how small misunderstandings spiral into prolonged conflicts (“When an innocent mistake turns into seventeen days”). The repeated expletive “fuckin’ relationships” conveys exhaustion and cynicism, reinforcing the idea that love often leads to pain. Despite claiming to be in love, the speaker struggles with the emotional weight of their situation, questioning whether relationships are worth the inevitable heartache.

[Verse 2]
Self-doubt takes center stage as the speaker questions why they feel guilty despite their aversion to conflict. The line “But you really fucked with my confidence” suggests that the relationship has taken a toll on their self-esteem. This verse highlights the emotional baggage that can accumulate in relationships, making it difficult to discern whether the problem lies within oneself or the partnership.

[Pre-Chorus]
This section mirrors the first pre-chorus but shifts the focus to honesty. The speaker pleads for the truth, implying that their partner may not be fully invested. The recurring question “Why am I in this relationship?” signals an internal struggle between wanting to hold on and recognizing that something is fundamentally broken.

[Chorus]
Repeating the chorus reinforces the song’s central conflict. The speaker acknowledges their love for their partner but feels trapped by the emotional toll of the relationship. The cyclical nature of these struggles suggests that love, no matter how deep, often leads to inevitable frustration and miscommunication.

[Bridge]
Here, HAIM expands the conversation beyond their own experiences, questioning whether relationship struggles are universal or merely a learned behavior passed down from their parents. The lyric “Or is it just the shit our parents did and had to live with it?” suggests that the challenges of love may be ingrained, making them feel inescapable. This existential reflection adds depth to the song, positioning relationships as both a personal struggle and a generational pattern.

[Chorus]
The final chorus offers a slightly different perspective, introducing a note of resignation. While the speaker acknowledges the breakdown of their relationship (“Feels like we’re not even friends”), they also admit that they would go through it all again if their partner were willing to let down their defenses. This moment of vulnerability suggests that, despite their frustration, love still holds power over them. The closing lines recognize that relationships are often messy and confusing, but they remain an essential part of growth and self-discovery.

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