Real Man Lyrics – beabadoobee

[Verse 1]
In the first verse, beabadoobee addresses her lover, expressing frustration over their lack of maturity. She shares how she confided in her mother about her partner's actions, which hints at a feeling of betrayal and childish behavior from the partner. The mention of her telling her mother "like a kid" further emphasizes her disappointment in their behavior.

[Chorus]
The chorus reflects beabadoobee’s desire for a partner who is emotionally mature and capable of being a "real man." She recalls a moment where she simply wanted to dance with her partner, extending her hand as a gesture of connection. However, the partner’s inability to understand or reciprocate this desire shows their lack of emotional depth, leaving beabadoobee feeling let down.

[Verse 2]
In the second verse, beabadoobee describes a scene where she was left waiting as her partner promised to be there "in a second," but ultimately locked her out, both physically and emotionally. She expresses her feelings of being left alone and uncertain, indicating that she expected this kind of behavior but still feels hurt by it.

[Chorus]
The chorus is repeated, reinforcing the idea that beabadoobee is seeking something more substantial than a fleeting romance. She acknowledges her role as part of a band, which may suggest that her lifestyle requires a partner who can understand and support her needs, yet she finds herself disappointed by her partner's lack of maturity once again.

[Outro]
In the outro, beabadoobee pleads for reassurance and a real connection, not just a superficial romance. She reveals that she is used to being disappointed, having fallen too quickly in the past. The repetition of the lines emphasizes her hope that if her partner truly wants the relationship, they will put in the effort to make it last. She questions whether they can hold down the relationship and be the "real man" she needs, expressing a mix of hope and resignation.